Do you want to have the kind of life where you just get to pick which girl to out with? How do you develop a life where you can just call up your favourite girl and tell her to meet you? Put in the effort, and you can do it.
Your #1 choice? When most men think of meeting single women, their thoughts usually turn to nightclubs and bars. They’re not a bad choice. I’m not going to tell you the same old stuff about them. Hey, it’s one option.
The problems start when night clubs and bars are the only places where you’re really doing anything to meet women. If you’re a musician, you cannot expect to walk through life not paying any attention to music, and then suddenly turn on when you get on your instrument. If you’re a writer, you cannot expect inspiration to suddenly come to you when you sit down to write.
The same with meeting women – it’s an art. And a true artist is always open and always giving thought to his art. You need to be on the go 24/7.
And this goes beyond always dressing for style so you’re ready to talk to women anywhere you go. By the way, do this – it goes without saying that you need to be prepared. However, what I really mean is you have to be in “open” mode.
“Open” mode. By this I mean you need to be open to conversation EVERYWHERE you go. How do you develop that attitude? Easy – go through what I call the stranger-a-day experiment. For whatever time feels comfortable – 7 days, one month – promise yourself you’ll say something to a stranger, for every single day.
When you pass by a girl waiting in a bus stop and she catches your eye – turn and say “hi”. If she looks at you weird, you have at least accomplished your goal – you talked to her.
What this experiment will do for you. You will be surprised at how amazing this feels – being willing to talk to any girl, anywhere. When you develop this willingness, you can work wonders in any room you go to. Then your task is reduced to finding the places where your types of women go to.