If you want to learn how to attract men, this contrarian advice could be just what you need to stand out from all the other women out there. Women are too often trying harder than they have to to get the attention of a man. Men like women who are effortlessly attractive. As thick as we can be, we can detect it when a woman isn’t being herself, just like you can for us. If you’re naturally aloof or cold, this may actually increase your chances of getting a man who will be interested in you. Don’t believe me? I’ll explain how this works below.
Men can’t help but feel attracted to women who reject them. When men don’t get what they want, they want it more. Really, it’s with everyone in life, but when it comes to women, us guys feel more determined when a woman turns us down.
In a way, we interpret rejection as really meaning “try harder”. That’s why some men can be so persistent to the extent where the woman feels like he’s trying too hard or even worse, tries to stalk her. Anyway, just know that by being cold, you’re rejecting him and that’s making him try harder.
2. Standing Out
If you want attention from a man who gets a lot of female attention, by being cold, you stand out. Instead of going up to the man and being friendly, he’ll be scouting around for someone who isn’t flocking to him and trying to earn his love.
You can literally do nothing and have a man. Of course, if you really are cold and don’t want attention, the man will be able to sense this and won’t come near you, but if you are interested in him, it will work out.
3. Give It, Take It Away
This is how to really ramp up the coldness and make him more interested in you than ever before. If you give him something he wants, like a bit of warmth, he will feel like he’s earned it.
The key though is to not give it to him all the time. Make it hard to get and he’ll want it more than ever. You should be doing more taking away of what you’re giving instead of giving more endlessly.
If you want to learn how to attract men, being cold is great way to get a man’s attention and to get him chasing you instead of the other way around.