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Do you want to have the kind of life where you just get to pick which girl to out with? How do you develop a life where you can just call up your favourite girl and tell her to meet you? Put in the effort, and you can do it.
Your #1 choice? When most men think of meeting single women, their thoughts usually turn to nightclubs and bars. They’re not a bad choice. I’m not going to tell you the same old stuff about them. Hey, it’s one option.
The problems start when night clubs and bars are the only places where you’re really doing anything to meet women. If you’re a musician, you cannot expect to walk through life not paying any attention to music, and then suddenly turn on when you get on your instrument. If you’re a writer, you cannot expect inspiration to suddenly come to you when you sit down to write.
The same with meeting women – it’s an art. And a true artist is always open and always giving thought to his art. You need to be on the go 24/7.
And this goes beyond always dressing for style so you’re ready to talk to women anywhere you go. By the way, do this – it goes without saying that you need to be prepared. However, what I really mean is you have to be in “open” mode.
“Open” mode. By this I mean you need to be open to conversation EVERYWHERE you go. How do you develop that attitude? Easy – go through what I call the stranger-a-day experiment. For whatever time feels comfortable – 7 days, one month – promise yourself you’ll say something to a stranger, for every single day.
When you pass by a girl waiting in a bus stop and she catches your eye – turn and say “hi”. If she looks at you weird, you have at least accomplished your goal – you talked to her.
What this experiment will do for you. You will be surprised at how amazing this feels – being willing to talk to any girl, anywhere. When you develop this willingness, you can work wonders in any room you go to. Then your task is reduced to finding the places where your types of women go to.… Read More
If you have been a single man for quite some time, it is possible that your knowledge and your skills in attracting a woman need a little bit of practice already. Make sure to update yourself with the latest fashion trends but do not take it too seriously. Make sure that you do not give an impression that you know more about fashion than she does, she would think that you might be gay. It is enough that you have enough knowledge about the clothing items that matches your looks.
Reality is, if you want to attract single women, you need to pay attention to how you look. No one would pay attention and become attracted to you if you look like you did not even exert any effort to dress well or to groom yourself properly. Your physical appearance is what women will get to see when you first meet them. It would be your primary key to get noticed. Make sure that you have shaved or trimmed your beard and mustache neatly; also take time to check your nose hair because it can be such a turn off. Another thing that you should take notice of is your nails. Make sure that you have clean nails. Single women can sometimes have that eagle eye which can see even the tiniest dirt you have in your nails. Never go out with such dirty nails because it can be the reason for a girl not to take any interest at you. Smelling is also one reason why a woman is attracted to a man. You have to remember though, that using too much cologne can irritate a woman. A few sprays of your favorite cologne will do. As long as it can still be smelled and as long as you smell good.
The previously stated tips are mostly regarding physical aspects. It is not being superficial but being realistic that your looks are the first thing that a woman may take notice of. Now, if you already caught the attention of the single women you like, the next step would be all up to you and your personality. You may look, dress and smell good, but if you do not have a good personality, it will still go to waste. Make sure you know how to initiate a conversation and as well as how to sustain it. Dead air means you two have nothing much to talk about and there really is not much of a connection going on. If you really want to work it out and attract the girl, be witty. You can tell her how pretty she looks in that dress, or how you would like to try one of her hobbies. Be a good conversationalist. Do not just do the talking; allow her to talk as well. Do not just listen and say nothing. Conversation is about two people exchanging ideas, you have to remember that.
If all goes well you may even get … Read More
It is probably every man’s dream. If you could only read their minds, your life would be vastly improved. If you were single, you could please every woman you came across, and get every date that you ever wanted. If you were dating or married, you would understand your partner better, and your relationship would grow and become stronger. However, this really is all fantasy, right? It there really a way to know what women want from men?
1. Women Want to Be Special
This one should be obvious; unfortunately, most guys simply do not understand it. Do not treat a woman like she is one of the guys. She is not. If you want to gain her love, respect and attention, then show her love, respect and attention. You will gain nothing by being aloof and cool. It is really no mystery at all. What women really want from men is to be treated well. So, tell her that she is beautiful, or hold the door for her. Just make sure that you go out of your way to make her feel special.
2. Women Want You to Listen
If you really want to know what a woman wants, then try listening. Okay, so she might not come right out and say exactly what she wants. However, this does not mean that she is a closed book. Women are great at dropping hints, and suggestions. You just have to try to read between the lines. For instance, if a woman says she is tired, this does not necessarily mean that she wants to go home and go to sleep. Instead, maybe she is just bored, or maybe just nervous. The key is to take notice.
3. Women Want You to Ask
If you really want to know what a woman wants, try asking her. You will be surprised at how many doors this will open for you. For instance, in the earlier example, noticing that the woman was tired was only half the battle. You now have to know what to do with this information. Well that is easy. Try asking her. Ask her if she wants to go some place else, or if she has something on her mind. Just do not come across as aggressive. When you ask a woman what she wants, you want to make sure that you sound like you actually care.… Read More
In today’s fast moving technologically advanced world it is a welcomed relief to read the many success stories about women in business. It is refreshing to read how women perceive the business world today, as more often than not they have a much softer approach in the way a business can be run. This is something that we all need in our hectic materialistic lives.
It is more than satisfying to learn that women who are enjoying great success in business do not believe that money is the be all and end all of how a business has to succeed, and how they view the somewhat questionable tactics that many may believe to be necessary, as being rather suspect to say the least.
It is wonderful to learn that employees are recognised as being one of the most important factors in whether the business will succeed or not. It is more than uplifting to be told that there are success stories out there where the quality of the product depends on its workforce.
Communication and support in the workplace makes for a much happier working environment. It encourages people to want to be good at their jobs, to be a part of something that actually means something and to be recognised as a vital cog in the machine.
A workforce can only be motivated by a strong, but caring leader who can show them the way by example they show. To be respected you need to earn the esteem of the people who work for you and the only way of doing this is to prove to your workforce that they are just as important as the product that they are producing for you.
Women in business succeed because they apply these criteria into the daily running of their businesses. It is so nice to be told there are still successful employers who care about their employees out there.… Read More
Men and women are two of the most opposite things to occur in the universe, in no small thanks to their way of thinking and preferences. Many men make the mistake of putting up a fake image whenever they meet new women, in hope of making themselves more attractive to the women.
Contrary to popular belief, women are very simple creatures. They only seem complicated because they are complete opposites with men. Here are some pointers. Men of the world, take note.
Women like Bad Boys
To all the boys out there who have been watching too much Disney movies and cartoons, here is a hint: there is no such thing as Prince Charming. Let your inner testosterone come out naturally, enough with all the tea drinking and classy elegance. Add a little rugged touch to your personality. Women like men who are gentle and yet a little rash and rugged too.
Personality, not Physicality
Ever wondered why there are so many hot women walking next to their boyfriends who look like Shrek? These are just proof that women, unlike men, overlook the physical stature of a person and see their personality. Women like men who are confident about themselves and have a high level of self-esteem.
Have Your Own Mind
When she asks you where you want to eat dinner, DO NOT ASK HER where she wants to eat dinner! Decide on your own, do not patronize your woman. When she asks you what you are having for dinner, do not answer like you will have whatever she is having! This is a total turnoff for women men who do not have their own minds. You are generally seen as weak and cannot stand on your own feet.
Money Works Too
Studies show that men who are profiled having a higher income appear more attractive to women than men who have lower incomes. This was proven in an experiment in 2010 when women were made rate the attractiveness of two men. They were shown a profile of the men including a fake income. The women rated the man who had a higher income to be more attractive. On a second group, the experiment gave interchanged the income levels of the two men in the profile, The one with the higher income also appeared more attractive to the women.
Obey these simple rules and you will see that women are not actually from another planet. They just see what common men find hard to see when they ask how to be attractive to women!… Read More