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What Women Really Want From Men

It is probably every man’s dream. If you could only read their minds, your life would be vastly improved. If you were single, you could please every woman you came across, and get every date that you ever wanted. If you were dating or married, you would understand your partner better, and your relationship would grow and become stronger. However, this really is all fantasy, right? It there really a way to know what women want from men?

1. Women Want to Be Special

This one should be obvious; unfortunately, most guys simply do not understand it. Do not treat a woman like she is one of the guys. She is not. If you want to gain her love, respect and attention, then show her love, respect and attention. You will gain nothing by being aloof and cool. It is really no mystery at all. What women really want from men is to be treated well. So, tell her that she is beautiful, or hold the door for her. Just make sure that you go out of your way to make her feel special.

2. Women Want You to Listen

If you really want to know what a woman wants, then try listening. Okay, so she might not come right out and say exactly what she wants. However, this does not mean that she is a closed book. Women are great at dropping hints, and suggestions. You just have to try to read between the lines. For instance, if a woman says she is tired, this does not necessarily mean that she wants to go home and go to sleep. Instead, maybe she is just bored, or maybe just nervous. The key is to take notice.

3. Women Want You to Ask

If you really want to know what a woman wants, try asking her. You will be surprised at how many doors this will open for you. For instance, in the earlier example, noticing that the woman was tired was only half the battle. You now have to know what to do with this information. Well that is easy. Try asking her. Ask her if she wants to go some place else, or if she has something on her mind. Just do not come across as aggressive. When you ask a woman what she wants, you want to make sure that you sound like you actually care.… Read More

Women in Business – Stand Apart!

In today’s fast moving technologically advanced world it is a welcomed relief to read the many success stories about women in business. It is refreshing to read how women perceive the business world today, as more often than not they have a much softer approach in the way a business can be run. This is something that we all need in our hectic materialistic lives.

It is more than satisfying to learn that women who are enjoying great success in business do not believe that money is the be all and end all of how a business has to succeed, and how they view the somewhat questionable tactics that many may believe to be necessary, as being rather suspect to say the least.

It is wonderful to learn that employees are recognised as being one of the most important factors in whether the business will succeed or not. It is more than uplifting to be told that there are success stories out there where the quality of the product depends on its workforce.

Communication and support in the workplace makes for a much happier working environment. It encourages people to want to be good at their jobs, to be a part of something that actually means something and to be recognised as a vital cog in the machine.

A workforce can only be motivated by a strong, but caring leader who can show them the way by example they show. To be respected you need to earn the esteem of the people who work for you and the only way of doing this is to prove to your workforce that they are just as important as the product that they are producing for you.

Women in business succeed because they apply these criteria into the daily running of their businesses. It is so nice to be told there are still successful employers who care about their employees out there.… Read More

How to Be Attractive to Women Now

Men and women are two of the most opposite things to occur in the universe, in no small thanks to their way of thinking and preferences. Many men make the mistake of putting up a fake image whenever they meet new women, in hope of making themselves more attractive to the women.

Contrary to popular belief, women are very simple creatures. They only seem complicated because they are complete opposites with men. Here are some pointers. Men of the world, take note.

Women like Bad Boys

To all the boys out there who have been watching too much Disney movies and cartoons, here is a hint: there is no such thing as Prince Charming. Let your inner testosterone come out naturally, enough with all the tea drinking and classy elegance. Add a little rugged touch to your personality. Women like men who are gentle and yet a little rash and rugged too.

Personality, not Physicality

Ever wondered why there are so many hot women walking next to their boyfriends who look like Shrek? These are just proof that women, unlike men, overlook the physical stature of a person and see their personality. Women like men who are confident about themselves and have a high level of self-esteem.

Have Your Own Mind

When she asks you where you want to eat dinner, DO NOT ASK HER where she wants to eat dinner! Decide on your own, do not patronize your woman. When she asks you what you are having for dinner, do not answer like you will have whatever she is having! This is a total turnoff for women men who do not have their own minds. You are generally seen as weak and cannot stand on your own feet.

Money Works Too

Studies show that men who are profiled having a higher income appear more attractive to women than men who have lower incomes. This was proven in an experiment in 2010 when women were made rate the attractiveness of two men. They were shown a profile of the men including a fake income. The women rated the man who had a higher income to be more attractive. On a second group, the experiment gave interchanged the income levels of the two men in the profile, The one with the higher income also appeared more attractive to the women.

Obey these simple rules and you will see that women are not actually from another planet. They just see what common men find hard to see when they ask how to be attractive to women!… Read More

How To Attract Men By Being Cold Towards Him

If you want to learn how to attract men, this contrarian advice could be just what you need to stand out from all the other women out there. Women are too often trying harder than they have to to get the attention of a man. Men like women who are effortlessly attractive. As thick as we can be, we can detect it when a woman isn’t being herself, just like you can for us. If you’re naturally aloof or cold, this may actually increase your chances of getting a man who will be interested in you. Don’t believe me? I’ll explain how this works below.

1. Rejection

Men can’t help but feel attracted to women who reject them. When men don’t get what they want, they want it more. Really, it’s with everyone in life, but when it comes to women, us guys feel more determined when a woman turns us down.

In a way, we interpret rejection as really meaning “try harder”. That’s why some men can be so persistent to the extent where the woman feels like he’s trying too hard or even worse, tries to stalk her. Anyway, just know that by being cold, you’re rejecting him and that’s making him try harder.

2. Standing Out

If you want attention from a man who gets a lot of female attention, by being cold, you stand out. Instead of going up to the man and being friendly, he’ll be scouting around for someone who isn’t flocking to him and trying to earn his love.

You can literally do nothing and have a man. Of course, if you really are cold and don’t want attention, the man will be able to sense this and won’t come near you, but if you are interested in him, it will work out.

3. Give It, Take It Away

This is how to really ramp up the coldness and make him more interested in you than ever before. If you give him something he wants, like a bit of warmth, he will feel like he’s earned it.

The key though is to not give it to him all the time. Make it hard to get and he’ll want it more than ever. You should be doing more taking away of what you’re giving instead of giving more endlessly.

If you want to learn how to attract men, being cold is great way to get a man’s attention and to get him chasing you instead of the other way around.… Read More

How To Make A Career Change – A Guide for Professional Women

Deciding to make a career change can be a very stressful and very exciting time in a woman’s life especially during a rough economic time. There are many reasons that people need to change careers. In this article I will be telling you what those reasons are and how to go about changing careers smoothly. Some of the main reasons that cause women to decide it is time to move on from their current job are:

– The relocation of a company or job: If your workplace has decided to relocate you, or the entire company, it could be time to relocate yourself into a new, local job. It isn’t always possible for career women to just pack up and move out of town. Many of us have children and family obligations that could cause an issue with relocation.

– There isn’t good leadership in your company or you have a manager that is inefficient: There are times when we work for people who should not be leaders, as they are not equipped with strong managerial skills. This type of mediocre leadership can reflect poorly on your work and can significantly hinder your professional development.

– You are working for an unstable company that does not provide good benefits or pay: Working for an unstable company can be stressful. If you have to worry about your job security and aren’t even getting paid what you are worth, maybe it is time to move on to a different path.

– You are ready for new challenges to improve your quality of life and happiness: Sometimes women need a change. Getting stuck in a career that you have no passion for can be spiritually debilitating. Don’t spend your life in a miserable job. You can use the steps below to help you in your career change.

So you have decided that it is time for you to make a career change. What can you do to get started on your new career search?

1. Update and enhance your resume. Make sure that you have a resume that is specific to the job that you want to land. Generic resumes are not beneficial for job seeking and employers can spot them a mile away. Seek the help of a professional resume editor if needed.

2. Brush up on your education. If you are trying to change to a new career that you don’t have any experience in you should consider taking some classes in this area. It is never too late to update your education. Take a few night or online classes to gain the knowledge that you will need for your new career.

3. Search for new careers internally and externally. If you are unhappy with your position at a company you can always try to find a new position within the same organization. It is not always wise to leave an employer that you have spent years building a relationship with. Inquire about open opportunities at your current company … Read More

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