Do you want to have the kind of life where you just get to
pick which girl to out with? How do you develop a life where you can just call
up your favourite girl and tell her to meet you? Put in the effort, and you can
Your #1 choice? When most men think of meeting single women,
their thoughts usually turn to nightclubs and bars. They’re not a bad choice.
I’m not going to tell you the same old stuff about them. Hey, it’s one option.
The problems start when night clubs and bars are the only
places where you’re really doing anything to meet women. If you’re a musician,
you cannot expect to walk through life not paying any attention to music, and
then suddenly turn on when you get on your instrument. If you’re a writer, you
cannot expect inspiration to suddenly come to you when you sit down to write.
The same with meeting women – it’s an art. And a true artist
is always open and always giving thought to his art. You need to be on the go
And this goes beyond always dressing for style so you’re
ready to talk to women anywhere you go. By the way, do this – it goes without
saying that you need to be prepared. However, what I really mean is you have to
be in “open” mode.
“Open” mode. By this I mean you need to be open to
conversation EVERYWHERE you go. How do you develop that attitude? Easy – go
through what I call the stranger-a-day experiment. For whatever time feels
comfortable – 7 days, one month – promise yourself you’ll say something to a
stranger, for every single day.
When you pass by a girl waiting in a bus stop and she
catches your eye – turn and say “hi”. If she looks at you weird, you
have at least accomplished your goal – you talked to her.
What this experiment will do for you. You will be surprised
at how amazing this feels – being willing to talk to any girl, anywhere. When
you develop this willingness, you can work wonders in any room you go to. Then
your task is reduced to finding the places where your types of women go to.… Read More
If you have been a single man for quite some time, it is
possible that your knowledge and your skills in attracting a woman need a
little bit of practice already. Make sure to update yourself with the latest
fashion trends but do not take it too seriously. Make sure that you do not give
an impression that you know more about fashion than she does, she would think
that you might be gay. It is enough that you have enough knowledge about the
clothing items that matches your looks.
Reality is, if you want to attract single women, you need to
pay attention to how you look. No one would pay attention and become attracted
to you if you look like you did not even exert any effort to dress well or to
groom yourself properly. Your physical appearance is what women will get to see
when you first meet them. It would be your primary key to get noticed. Make
sure that you have shaved or trimmed your beard and mustache neatly; also take
time to check your nose hair because it can be such a turn off. Another thing
that you should take notice of is your nails. Make sure that you have clean
nails. Single women can sometimes have that eagle eye which can see even the
tiniest dirt you have in your nails. Never go out with such dirty nails because
it can be the reason for a girl not to take any interest at you. Smelling is
also one reason why a woman is attracted to a man. You have to remember though,
that using too much cologne can irritate a woman. A few sprays of your favorite
cologne will do. As long as it can still be smelled and as long as you smell
The previously stated tips are mostly regarding physical
aspects. It is not being superficial but being realistic that your looks are
the first thing that a woman may take notice of. Now, if you already caught the
attention of the single women you like, the next step would be all up to you
and your personality. You may look, dress and smell good, but if you do not
have a good personality, it will still go to waste. Make sure you know how to
initiate a conversation and as well as how to sustain it. Dead air means you
two have nothing much to talk about and there really is not much of a
connection going on. If you really want to work it out and attract the girl, be
witty. You can tell her how pretty she looks in that dress, or how you would
like to try one of her hobbies. Be a good conversationalist. Do not just do the
talking; allow her to talk as well. Do not just listen and say nothing.
Conversation is about two people exchanging ideas, you have to remember that.
If all goes well you may even get … Read More
It is probably every
man’s dream. If you could only read their minds, your life would be vastly
improved. If you were single, you could please every woman you came across, and
get every date that you ever wanted. If you were dating or married, you would understand
your partner better, and your relationship would grow and become stronger.
However, this really is all fantasy, right? It there really a way to know what
women want from men?
1. Women Want to Be Special
This one should be
obvious; unfortunately, most guys simply do not understand it. Do not treat a
woman like she is one of the guys. She is not. If you want to gain her love,
respect and attention, then show her love, respect and attention. You will gain
nothing by being aloof and cool. It is really no mystery at all. What women
really want from men is to be treated well. So, tell her that she is beautiful,
or hold the door for her. Just make sure that you go out of your way to make
her feel special.
2. Women Want You to Listen
If you really want to
know what a woman wants, then try listening. Okay, so she might not come right
out and say exactly what she wants. However, this does not mean that she is a
closed book. Women are great at dropping hints, and suggestions. You just have
to try to read between the lines. For instance, if a woman says she is tired,
this does not necessarily mean that she wants to go home and go to sleep.
Instead, maybe she is just bored, or maybe just nervous. The key is to take
3. Women Want You to Ask
If you really want to
know what a woman wants, try asking her. You will be surprised at how many
doors this will open for you. For instance, in the earlier example, noticing
that the woman was tired was only half the battle. You now have to know what to
do with this information. Well that is easy. Try asking her. Ask her if she
wants to go some place else, or if she has something on her mind. Just do not
come across as aggressive. When you ask a woman what she wants, you want to
make sure that you sound like you actually care.… Read More
In today’s fast moving
technologically advanced world it is a welcomed relief to read the many success
stories about women in business. It is refreshing to read how women perceive
the business world today, as more often than not they have a much softer
approach in the way a business can be run. This is something that we all need
in our hectic materialistic lives.
It is more than
satisfying to learn that women who are enjoying great success in business do
not believe that money is the be all and end all of how a business has to
succeed, and how they view the somewhat questionable tactics that many may
believe to be necessary, as being rather suspect to say the least.
It is wonderful to
learn that employees are recognised as being one of the most important factors
in whether the business will succeed or not. It is more than uplifting to be
told that there are success stories out there where the quality of the product
depends on its workforce.
support in the workplace makes for a much happier working environment. It
encourages people to want to be good at their jobs, to be a part of something
that actually means something and to be recognised as a vital cog in the
A workforce can only
be motivated by a strong, but caring leader who can show them the way by
example they show. To be respected you need to earn the esteem of the people
who work for you and the only way of doing this is to prove to your workforce
that they are just as important as the product that they are producing for you.
Women in business
succeed because they apply these criteria into the daily running of their
businesses. It is so nice to be told there are still successful employers who
care about their employees out there.… Read More
Men and women are two
of the most opposite things to occur in the universe, in no small thanks to
their way of thinking and preferences. Many men make the mistake of putting up
a fake image whenever they meet new women, in hope of making themselves more
attractive to the women.
Contrary to popular
belief, women are very simple creatures. They only seem complicated because
they are complete opposites with men. Here are some pointers. Men of the world,
Women like Bad Boys
To all the boys out
there who have been watching too much Disney movies and cartoons, here is a
hint: there is no such thing as Prince Charming. Let your inner testosterone
come out naturally, enough with all the tea drinking and classy elegance. Add a
little rugged touch to your personality. Women like men who are gentle and yet
a little rash and rugged too.
Personality, not Physicality
Ever wondered why
there are so many hot women walking next to their boyfriends who look like
Shrek? These are just proof that women, unlike men, overlook the physical
stature of a person and see their personality. Women like men who are confident
about themselves and have a high level of self-esteem.
Have Your Own Mind
When she asks you
where you want to eat dinner, DO NOT ASK HER where she wants to eat dinner!
Decide on your own, do not patronize your woman. When she asks you what you are
having for dinner, do not answer like you will have whatever she is having!
This is a total turnoff for women men who do not have their own minds. You are
generally seen as weak and cannot stand on your own feet.
Money Works Too
Studies show that men
who are profiled having a higher income appear more attractive to women than
men who have lower incomes. This was proven in an experiment in 2010 when women
were made rate the attractiveness of two men. They were shown a profile of the
men including a fake income. The women rated the man who had a higher income to
be more attractive. On a second group, the experiment gave interchanged the
income levels of the two men in the profile, The one with the higher income
also appeared more attractive to the women.
Obey these simple rules
and you will see that women are not actually from another planet. They just see
what common men find hard to see when they ask how to be attractive to women!… Read More